woman in today

women are able to (& are
encouraged to) make their own
money. As a consequence,
dating and marriage options for
men are getting tougher,
especially over the past 10-20
years. Women have generally
had more options in terms of
being more picky about who
they choose. But in the last
decade or so, with the cost of
living increasing, women are
once again seeking financial
security. So now we have a
situation where women still have
options, but when they do settle
on a mate, it is usually after a
longer and more scrutinizing
process. Why? Because women
are looking for men who have
reached a certain level
financially. Women can now
afford to be more picky on the
question of money, and they are
taking full advantage of the
opportunity.
Now, what do women primarily
look for in a mate? Good
careers, & success (financial
prowess)- these are the primary
benchmarks, despite anything
else you hear. It basically comes
down to money. Women seek
men who can provide “Security”,
and for many women,
“ Security”= financial security.
Women judge men & determine
who they want to date based on
a guys financial worth. Everything
else is secondary to this pre-
condition. A mans success with
women is ultimately tied to his
career or how well he is doing
financially. Generally, the
more money he has, the more
successful he will be with
dating. The less money he has,
the worse off he will be in
terms of opportunities with
women. A "well-off" man is
often the ideal. Look at all of
the TV shows that reinforce this
norm. Most women will say
"financially stable", but this is just
code for a very steady &
"comfortable" income.